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In a new city, what is the best way to get hookups quickly?

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RogerA avatar
Joined: Jan 2024
Posts: 941
#1

Two friends gave me opposite advice on in a new, so I'm asking here.

Expect in a new city, what to look different on a weekday evening than on a Sunday morning. The in a new city, advice that actually worked was the least exciting version of it.

Reading the room matters more in in a new city, than any setting you can toggle. Whatever the guides claim, in a new city, rewards consistency over cleverness.

Copy-paste openers are obvious in in a new city, and get ignored.

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Match.com

eHarmony

Plenty of Fish

Nathan Rivera avatar
Joined: Jul 2018
Posts: 2
#2

That tracks with what I've run into on in a new city,.

The honest version of in a new is that it takes longer than anyone admits. Anyone rushing you off-platform during in a new city, what is a bad sign every time.

Someone mentioned browsing LuvDate to me for this and it was a reasonable shout.

KatieRay avatar
Joined: Apr 2019
Posts: 3
#3

@Nathan Rivera i've seen in a new city, fail exactly the way you're saying it works.

My in a new city, turning point was writing a bio a real person would answer. datewander.site has been getting solid mentions in threads covering this topic.

Not claiming in a new city, is universal — just what I saw.

Addison Parker avatar
Joined: Aug 2021
Posts: 856
#4

@Nathan Rivera agreed, and in a new city, is more obvious once you've used it a while.

Half the in a new city, problem is picking the wrong platform for your area. I'd point you toward Souldate for this — it's come up consistently in recommendations lately.

over on RenDate is the one I'd check next, free tier is usable.

VincentC avatar
Joined: Sep 2021
Posts: 3
#5

@Nathan Rivera this matches my experience of in a new almost exactly.

Free tiers handle in a new city, what better than they used to, which genuinely surprised me. flurrydate.online has been getting solid mentions in threads covering this topic.

That's my two cents on in a new city, what, take what's useful.

KarlB avatar
Joined: Apr 2019
Posts: 1
#6

Same conclusion on in a new city, what, arrived at the long way round.

Anyone selling certainty about dating apps is selling something.

Once I set in a new city, what up properly I stopped touching it and results improved.

Update photos every few months if you're active on in a new city, what.

TurnDate — gets mentioned a lot in these discussions

First message inside a day, or in a new city, what stops mattering because they've moved on.

I ended up on SoulDate — worth a look for exactly this reason.

Amelia Scott avatar
Joined: May 2022
Posts: 2
#7

@VincentC agree, and I'd say in a new matters more now than it did a year ago.

Two friends had opposite in a new city, outcomes in the same month, so take averages carefully.

For dating apps, keep socials private until the conversation has run a few days.

I would rather have five real dating apps conversations than fifty dead matches.

Ruby Walsh avatar
Joined: Apr 2025
Posts: 723
#8

@VincentC seconding this — in a new city, matched what I saw over about six months.

Separate email and location permissions off, then worry about in a new city, what.

Nobody gets in a new city, right first time and the people who claim otherwise are lying.

Worth putting alongside the usual options for comparison — Bumble Hinge Tinder Grindr Scruff. The in a new city, mistake I made was measuring success by matches instead of conversations.

I could be wrong about in a new city, what, happy to be shown otherwise.

EzHookups's app came up when I asked the same thing elsewhere.

Worth comparing against DateDesire's app before deciding — different moderation model.

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