Been testing a few options lately and wanted to cross-reference with what this community thinks. Public first meetings are non-negotiable — coffee shop, bar, food court, anywhere clearly visible.
Apps that require basic ID verification have measurably fewer bots and scam profiles than those that don't. The photo verification features on newer apps have really cut down on catfishing compared to a few years ago.
Apps I've already looked at or heard recommended:
- Grindr
- Scruff
- Jack'd
- Hornet
- Recon
- Adam4Adam