Tested a few already and wanted to compare notes with people who've spent more time on these. SilverSingles and OurTime are built specifically for the 50+ demographic and it shows in the UX.
The best platforms generate revenue from ads rather than subscriptions, keeping core access genuinely open. Elite Singles targets graduates and professionals — the user base quality reflects the higher barrier.
Things I keep in mind for safety:
- Romance scams follow predictable patterns: quick emotional escalation and requests for money.
- Screen recording during video chats is a real concern — keep personal details off screen.
- Check privacy policies before giving any platform access to your contacts or precise location.
- A VPN helps with general browsing privacy but isn't a complete anonymity solution.