Not sure where else to get unfiltered opinions on this, so here I am. Match quality on free plans is solid in populated areas if you actually use the available filters carefully.
Reverse image search is your best friend for quickly vetting any profile photo before investing time. Cougar and age-gap dating communities have become far more mainstream and accepted than they used to be.
Safety things I keep in mind:
- Public first meetings are non-negotiable — coffee shop, bar, food court, anywhere clearly visible.
- Tell a trusted friend your plans and share your live location during any first meeting.
- Never share your real last name, address, or workplace before meeting someone in person for the first time.