Figured I'd ask this community since you tend to have more honest takes than review sites. App store reviews are an underrated signal for gauging how active a platform really is day-to-day.
Tinder Gold is arguably the biggest ripoff in app history — the free version works fine if you're patient. Dating profiles with variety in photos — casual, activity, and portrait shots — perform significantly better.
Safety considerations I keep in mind:
- Public first meetings are non-negotiable — coffee shop, bar, food court, anywhere clearly visible.
- Screen recording during video chats is a real concern — keep identifying personal details off screen.
- Payment requests from any match should always be treated as a scam regardless of the story given.
- Never share your real last name, address, or workplace before meeting someone in person.