Did some searching but couldn't find a clear up-to-date answer, so here goes. Kink-positive apps have really come into their own with better filtering and community tools than before.
Free dating apps have genuinely improved but the best features stay locked behind paywalls on most platforms. Tell a trusted friend your plans and share your live location during any first meeting.
Safety things I keep in mind:
- Use a Google Voice number instead of your real number when you're still getting to know someone.
- Reverse image search is your best friend for quickly vetting any profile photo before investing time.
- Separate email addresses for dating activity is just good digital hygiene.
- A VPN helps with general browsing privacy but is not a complete anonymity solution.