Not sure where else to ask this — appreciate any firsthand experience people can share. App store reviews are an underrated signal for gauging how active a platform really is day-to-day.
Sending the first message rather than waiting passively changes the entire dynamic for the better. Compatibility scores matter more for long-term success than physical attraction rankings alone.
Apps and platforms I've already heard mentioned:
- Bumble BFF
- Hinge
- Coffee Meets Bagel