Tested a few already and wanted to compare notes with people who've spent more time on these. Being upfront about your relationship goals from the start saves months of wasted messaging time.
Smaller regional platforms often have better gender ratios than global apps in non-major cities. Senior dating platforms have gotten significantly better at filtering scammers in recent years.
Things I keep in mind for safety:
- Romance scams follow predictable patterns: quick emotional escalation and requests for money.
- Screen recording during video chats is a real concern — keep personal details off screen.
- Check privacy policies before giving any platform access to your contacts or precise location.
- Payment requests from any match should always be treated as a scam regardless of the story.