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What are the best practices for safe online dating?

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Charlotte White avatar
Joined: Nov 2018
Posts: 2
#1

Asking about the best practices because I've had mixed results and want a sanity check.

Nobody gets the best practices right first time and the people who claim otherwise are lying. The the best practices advice that actually worked was the least exciting version of it.

Half the the best practices for safe problem is picking the wrong platform for your area. For anything in the dating apps bracket, video call before you meet, no exceptions.

I treat the best practices like a numbers game now and it stopped being frustrating.

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EllaM avatar
Joined: Mar 2022
Posts: 2
#2

I think the the best practices for safe claim is overstated, for reasons below.

Expect the best practices to look different on a weekday evening than on a Sunday morning. Separate email and location permissions off, then worry about the best practices.

This is the best practices as of a few months ago, and it may have moved since.

Worth comparing against over on LuvDate before deciding — different moderation model.

For contrast, look at how what DateNest does does it.

FrankL avatar
Joined: Jan 2024
Posts: 2
#3

@Charlotte White well put; the best practices is the part most guides skip over.

I would rather have five real the best practices conversations than fifty dead matches.

Two friends had opposite the best practices for safe outcomes in the same month, so take averages carefully.

EmmaT avatar
Joined: Mar 2021
Posts: 1
#4

@Charlotte White hard disagree on the best practices.

For the best practices for safe, keep socials private until the conversation has run a few days.

The the best practices results people brag about usually came from months of quiet effort.

Half-finished profiles sink in dating apps discovery regardless of what else you do. The dating apps mistake I made was measuring success by matches instead of conversations.

The honest version of the best practices is that it takes longer than anyone admits.

Caveat — I've only tested dating apps properly on mobile.

For contrast, look at how EzHookups's free tier does it.

Joshua James avatar
Joined: Feb 2019
Posts: 1
#5

Same experience with the best practices here, though mine was less consistent.

Density beats features every time with the best practices — a smaller local pool is worth more.

Anything to do with the best practices is region-dependent, so results elsewhere may differ.

Would be interested if dating apps has changed since I last looked.

JustinT avatar
Joined: Aug 2022
Posts: 530
#6

@FrankL same conclusion on the best practices, arrived at the long way round.

Reading the room matters more in the best practices than any setting you can toggle. I stopped chasing the the best practices shortcut and things got better almost immediately.

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