Been mulling this over for a while and this seemed like the right community to ask. Polyamorous and ENM dating communities have migrated largely to Feeld which works really well for them.
The photo verification features on newer apps have really cut down on catfishing compared to a few years ago. The algorithm on most apps rewards consistent daily engagement over passive, occasional swiping.
Apps I've already looked at or heard recommended:
- Tinder
- Bumble
- Hinge
- Feeld