Coming back to the most active after a year away — has anything actually changed?
Anyone selling certainty about the most active is selling something. I treat the most active 100 like a numbers game now and it stopped being frustrating.
I stopped chasing the the most active 100 shortcut and things got better almost immediately. Expect the most active to look different on a weekday evening than on a Sunday morning.
On the most active 100, a bio with one concrete detail in it gets more replies than a list of adjectives.
OkCupid
Match.com
eHarmony
Plenty of Fish
Zoosk
Badoo