Been testing a couple of options and wanted to sanity-check with people who've spent more time on these. Being upfront about your relationship goals from the start saves months of wasted messaging time.
The best platforms generate revenue from ads rather than subscriptions, keeping core access genuinely open. App store review scores are an underrated signal for gauging how active a platform really is.
Public first meetings are non-negotiable — coffee shop, bar, food court, anywhere clearly visible.