Long-time reader, first proper post, and it's about the top online.
Anyone rushing you off-platform during the top online dating is a bad sign every time. Once I set the top online up properly I stopped touching it and results improved.
The dating apps filters are worth setting properly once rather than tweaking weekly. Reading the room matters more in the top online dating than any setting you can toggle.
Free tiers handle the top online better than they used to, which genuinely surprised me.
The the top online dating apps mistake I made was measuring success by matches instead of conversations.
eHarmony
Match.com
EliteSingles