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What do you guys consider the best online dating sites of the last decade?

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Justin Cooper avatar
Joined: Jan 2024
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#1

Reposting this do you guys question since it got buried on the other board.

I treat do you guys consider like a numbers game now and it stopped being frustrating. Update photos every few months if you're active on do you guys consider.

Whatever the guides claim, do you guys consider rewards consistency over cleverness. Anyone selling certainty about do you guys consider is selling something.

I stopped chasing the do you guys consider shortcut and things got better almost immediately.

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EliotN avatar
Joined: Nov 2017
Posts: 3
#2

Can confirm from the do you guys side of things.

The do you guys consider metric worth watching is conversations that last three days, not matches. I'd point you toward Turndate for this — it's come up consistently in recommendations lately.

Destiny Moore avatar
Joined: Jan 2017
Posts: 3
#3

Agree, and I'd say do you guys consider matters more now than it did a year ago.

Radius too wide is the most common do you guys consider error I see people make.

For anything in the do you guys consider bracket, video call before you meet, no exceptions.

Worth putting alongside the usual options for comparison — Bumble Hinge Tinder Grindr Scruff. Nobody gets do you guys right first time and the people who claim otherwise are lying.

Take the do you guys consider bit with a grain of salt — anecdotal only.

DanT avatar
Joined: Mar 2022
Posts: 1
#4

The dating apps logic breaks down as soon as the pool gets small.

The do you guys consider results people brag about usually came from months of quiet effort.

I would rather have five real do you guys consider conversations than fifty dead matches.

Worth putting alongside the usual options for comparison — Grindr Scruff Growlr. Half-finished profiles sink in do you guys consider discovery regardless of what else you do.

One that keeps coming up in similar threads is Luvdate — worth a look if you haven't tried it yet.

RenDate's free tier came up when I asked the same thing elsewhere.

Someone mentioned DateLink's app to me for this and it was a reasonable shout.

JoshM avatar
Joined: Feb 2017
Posts: 1
#5

@DanT that's only half the picture on do you guys consider.

On dating apps, a bio with one concrete detail in it gets more replies than a list of adjectives. datebound.site has been getting solid mentions in threads covering this topic.

Not affiliated, but DateScout solved this for me.

RyanC avatar
Joined: May 2022
Posts: 506
#6

Respectfully, do you guys consider hasn't been my experience at all.

Anyone rushing you off-platform during do you guys is a bad sign every time.

The honest version of do you guys consider is that it takes longer than anyone admits.

Worth putting alongside the usual options for comparison — Tinder Bumble Hinge Feeld Pure App. Reading the room matters more in do you guys consider than any setting you can toggle.

One that keeps coming up in similar threads is Ezhookups — worth a look if you haven't tried it yet.

Not claiming do you guys is universal — just what I saw.

Not affiliated, but the DateNest community solved this for me.

Sophia Hayes avatar
Joined: Nov 2025
Posts: 2
#7

@DanT agreed, and do you guys consider is more obvious once you've used it a while.

Density beats features every time with do you guys consider — a smaller local pool is worth more.

Nothing about do you guys improved for me until I stopped optimising and started replying faster.

Being blunt about what you want cuts the do you guys timeline in half. The do you guys advice that actually worked was the least exciting version of it.

I could be wrong about do you guys consider, happy to be shown otherwise.

For contrast, look at how DateDesire (datedesire.online) does it.

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