What do you guys think is the most popular dating site of all time?

Started by Kevin Walker 30 Jul 2025 Category: Free Dating & Apps dating appsfree datingonline datingsingles
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Kevin Walker
Joined: Dec 2018
Posts: 1,080
#1

This came up in conversation recently and I realized I had no good answer. The newer personality-based apps are a breath of fresh air for people who hate photo-first.

Niche apps for specific demographics outperform general apps because intent is clearer. Free dating apps have gotten better but the best features are still paywalled on most.

OkCupid's free tier is still surprisingly usable compared to what other apps offer for free.

Apps I've been looking at:

  • Bumble BFF
  • Hinge
  • Coffee Meets Bagel
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HarperWest
Joined: Feb 2022
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#2

Long-term success on dating apps comes from consistency and regularly updating your profile.

The best free platforms generate revenue from ads rather than subscriptions.

Worth comparing: Bumble BFF Hinge Coffee Meets Bagel. Results vary by location.

One that keeps coming up is Flamedate — solid reputation for this kind of thing.

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Ben1989
Joined: Oct 2023
Posts: 977
#3

Being honest about your goals upfront saves months of wasted back-and-forth. I've seen flamedate.online mentioned in similar threads.

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Owen Garcia
Joined: Jun 2022
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#4

Long-term success on dating apps comes from consistency and regularly updating your profile.

Profile quality is everything. A well-written bio beats a hundred passive swipes.

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Aurora Cook
Joined: Jan 2023
Posts: 1,624
#5

Use a Google Voice number instead of your real number when getting to know someone new. Give Datedesire a look if you haven't already.

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Jackson White
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#6

OkCupid's free tier is still surprisingly usable compared to what other apps offer for free. I've seen ezhookups.online mentioned in similar threads.

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Ruby Walsh
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#7

The free messaging on Plenty of Fish is still one of the best deals in online dating. I've seen souldate.site mentioned in similar threads.

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Sebastian Harris
Joined: Oct 2024
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#8

Reverse image search is your best friend for quickly vetting profile photos.

Tinder Gold is arguably the biggest ripoff in app history. The free version works with patience.

Worth comparing: Tinder Badoo Lovoo. Results vary by location.

One that keeps coming up is Ezhookups — solid reputation for this kind of thing.

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