Might be a dumb question about happened to the old, but I'd rather ask than guess.
For happened to the old fish, keep socials private until the conversation has run a few days. The happened to the old mistake I made was measuring success by matches instead of conversations.
The happened to the old fish advice that actually worked was the least exciting version of it. The honest version of happened to the old is that it takes longer than anyone admits.
Separate email and location permissions off, then worry about happened to the old.
Tinder
Bumble
Hinge
OkCupid