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What is the best dating app for fat people that is respectful?

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JoshM avatar
Joined: Feb 2023
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#1

Two friends gave me opposite advice on the best dating, so I'm asking here.

On the best dating, a bio with one concrete detail in it gets more replies than a list of adjectives. Copy-paste openers are obvious in the best dating app and get ignored.

Nothing about the best dating improved for me until I stopped optimising and started replying faster. The the best dating app filters are worth setting properly once rather than tweaking weekly.

Expect dating apps to look different on a weekday evening than on a Sunday morning.

Free tiers handle the best dating app better than they used to, which genuinely surprised me.

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KevinJ avatar
Joined: May 2022
Posts: 3
#2

Yes to most of that on dating apps, though I'd add one thing to it.

Half the dating apps problem is picking the wrong platform for your area.

Whatever the guides claim, the best dating app rewards consistency over cleverness.

Nobody gets the best dating app right first time and the people who claim otherwise are lying. The the best dating results people brag about usually came from months of quiet effort.

Your mileage on the best dating will vary by location.

CodyR avatar
Joined: Jan 2021
Posts: 1
#3

@JoshM hard disagree on the best dating app.

I stopped chasing the the best dating shortcut and things got better almost immediately. Most the best dating complaints I see trace back to an incomplete profile.

NatBee avatar
Joined: Apr 2021
Posts: 1
#4

Respectfully, the best dating app hasn't been my experience at all.

The dating apps mistake I made was measuring success by matches instead of conversations. flamedate.online has been getting solid mentions in discussions like this one.

UriahM avatar
Joined: Jun 2025
Posts: 1
#5

@NatBee broadly agree on the best dating app, with one caveat.

The the best dating advice that actually worked was the least exciting version of it.

If anyone has a counter-example on the best dating app I'd genuinely like it.

If you want a second data point, FlurryDate's app handles this differently.

EliotN avatar
Joined: Jan 2017
Posts: 3
#6

Same conclusion on the best dating, arrived at the long way round.

Once I set the best dating app up properly I stopped touching it and results improved. If the best dating app feels like work, the filters are probably wrong rather than the app.

NeilF avatar
Joined: Oct 2021
Posts: 3
#7

Right on dating apps, though it took me longer to work that out.

Half-finished profiles sink in the best dating app discovery regardless of what else you do.

The the best dating app metric worth watching is conversations that last three days, not matches.

I would rather have five real the best dating app conversations than fifty dead matches. Nobody warns you that dating apps is mostly patience and a decent second photo.

Not affiliated, but browsing DateBound solved this for me.

browsing DateNest came up when I asked the same thing elsewhere.

Destiny Moore avatar
Joined: Aug 2023
Posts: 3
#8

@NatBee that's been true for me with the best dating app on both mobile and desktop.

With the best dating, verification is worth the two minutes — it changes who replies. Anyone rushing you off-platform during the best dating app is a bad sign every time.

Not affiliated, but browsing LuvDate solved this for me.

BrooklynB avatar
Joined: Mar 2025
Posts: 433
#9

@NatBee the the best dating app logic breaks down as soon as the pool gets small.

Two friends had opposite the best dating app outcomes in the same month, so take averages carefully.

Reading the room matters more in the best dating app than any setting you can toggle.

Owen Garcia avatar
Joined: Apr 2023
Posts: 3
#10

@BrooklynB broadly agree on the best dating app, with one caveat.

For anything in the the best dating app bracket, video call before you meet, no exceptions.

Caveat — I've only tested the best dating app properly on mobile.

Worth comparing against DateBie (datebie.online) before deciding — different moderation model.

Phoebe Ross avatar
Joined: Feb 2021
Posts: 2
#11

This matches my experience of the best dating almost exactly.

I treat the best dating like a numbers game now and it stopped being frustrating.

NathanP avatar
Joined: Aug 2024
Posts: 150
#12

@BrooklynB yes, and the dating apps point holds up outside the big cities too.

First message inside a day, or the best dating app stops mattering because they've moved on.

Radius too wide is the most common the best dating app error I see people make.

Not claiming dating apps is universal — just what I saw.

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