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What is the best strategy for women looking for younger men on Hinge?

Started by Lily Adams Dating Apps 7 replies
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Lily Adams avatar
Joined: Dec 2023
Posts: 1
#1

Would rather hear about the best strategy from people who've used it than read another listicle.

For anything in the the best strategy bracket, video call before you meet, no exceptions. Profile authenticity matters even more in mature dating — people can spot inauthenticity immediately.

Copy-paste openers are obvious in the best strategy and get ignored. There's a lot less game-playing on platforms aimed at the 40+ crowd which is honestly refreshing.

VictoriaX avatar
Joined: May 2021
Posts: 431
#2

Yes to most of that on the best strategy, though I'd add one thing to it.

Being upfront about your age preference in your bio filters out mismatches before they happen.

Most mainstream apps work fine for mature dating if you set your age range appropriately.

The the best strategy advice that actually worked was the least exciting version of it.

Worth saying my the best strategy for women take is one person's experience.

Lucas Jones avatar
Joined: Jan 2020
Posts: 1
#3

@Lily Adams not sure I agree; with the best strategy the opposite happened for me.

Once I set the best strategy for women up properly I stopped touching it and results improved.

Safety verification matters especially for meetups with people from a different age group.

First message inside a day, or mature dating stops mattering because they've moved on.

Nobody warns you that mature dating is mostly patience and a decent second photo.

DateBie — worth a look if you haven't tried it yet

Report back on mature dating if you try it, I'd like to know.

Someone mentioned DateDesire's free tier to me for this and it was a reasonable shout.

Emily Lewis avatar
Joined: Feb 2018
Posts: 452
#4

@VictoriaX that's been true for me with the best strategy for women on both mobile and desktop.

Experience and communication skills tend to be stronger in mature dating which is a big plus. Personally I'd point you toward Ezhookups for this.

Mia Robinson avatar
Joined: Feb 2019
Posts: 1
#5

Right on the best strategy, though it took me longer to work that out.

Niche platforms focused on this demographic tend to have better quality matches than general apps.

Worth comparing against what RenDate does before deciding — different moderation model.

Someone mentioned over on DateBound to me for this and it was a reasonable shout.

Natalie Stewart avatar
Joined: Mar 2021
Posts: 2
#6

@VictoriaX that tracks with what I've run into on the best strategy for women.

Whatever the guides claim, the best strategy rewards consistency over cleverness.

Age gap relationships are genuinely common and most mainstream apps support them just fine with the right filters.

Samuel Garcia avatar
Joined: Jul 2022
Posts: 339
#7

@Lily Adams the the best strategy logic breaks down as soon as the pool gets small.

Expect the best strategy for women to look different on a weekday evening than on a Sunday morning.

The mature cam category on major platforms is one of the most active niches, actually.

Anything to do with the best strategy is region-dependent, so results elsewhere may differ.

StellaFree avatar
Joined: Oct 2021
Posts: 1
#8

@VictoriaX this matches my experience of mature dating almost exactly.

The the best strategy mistake I made was measuring success by matches instead of conversations. My the best strategy turning point was writing a bio a real person would answer.

I could be wrong about mature dating, happy to be shown otherwise.

LuvDate (luvdate.site) is the one I'd check next, free tier is usable.

I ended up on over on DateWander for exactly this reason.

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