Not sure where else to get unfiltered opinions on this, so here I am. Cougar and age-gap dating communities have become far more mainstream and accepted than they used to be.
Personality-based matching apps are a breath of fresh air for anyone burned out on photo-first swiping. Rural dating apps like Farmers Only have surprisingly loyal user bases that actually produce real matches.
Facebook Dating has a surprisingly active user base in mid-sized cities where other apps are thin.
Safety things I keep in mind:
- Screen recording during video chats is a real concern — keep personal details off screen.
- Use a Google Voice number instead of your real number when you're still getting to know someone.
- Separate email addresses for dating activity is just good digital hygiene.