Not sure where else to ask this — appreciate any firsthand experience people can share. Smaller regional platforms often have better gender ratios than the global apps in smaller cities.
Match quality on free plans is solid if you're in a populated area and actually use the filters available. Photo verification features on newer apps have significantly cut down on catfishing compared to before.
Senior-focused platforms attract people who are clearer about what they want, which speeds up matching.
Safety considerations I keep in mind:
- Screen recording during video chats is a real concern — keep identifying personal details off screen.
- Separate email addresses dedicated to dating activity is just good basic digital hygiene.
- Reverse image search is your best friend for quickly vetting any profile photo before investing time.
- Most romance scams follow predictable patterns: quick emotional escalation and requests for money.