Figured I'd ask this community since you tend to have more honest takes than review sites. Sending the first message rather than waiting passively changes the entire dynamic for the better.
Cross-platform apps that work well on both web and mobile are worth prioritizing for flexibility. Tinder Gold is arguably the biggest ripoff in app history — the free version works fine if you're patient.
Tinder's free tier is still usable but the discovery pool is noticeably more limited than it used to be.
Apps and platforms I've already heard mentioned:
- eHarmony
- Match.com
- EliteSingles
- Zoosk
- Plenty of Fish