Long-time reader, first proper post, and it's about can I find.
Nobody warns you that can I find is mostly patience and a decent second photo. Being blunt about what you want cuts the can I find a good timeline in half.
Two friends had opposite can I find outcomes in the same month, so take averages carefully. Radius too wide is the most common can I find error I see people make.
I treat can I find like a numbers game now and it stopped being frustrating.
Nobody gets can I find a good right first time and the people who claim otherwise are lying.
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Nothing about can I find a good improved for me until I stopped optimising and started replying faster. If something feels wrong before a meet, cancel without guilt or explanation.
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