This came up in a group chat recently and I realized nobody had a good answer. Checking user reviews on app stores is an underrated way to gauge how active a platform really is.
Polyamorous and ENM dating communities have migrated largely to Feeld which works really well for them. International dating apps are improving fast — translation features are getting genuinely usable.
Sending the first message on Bumble rather than waiting passively changes the whole dynamic for the better.
Apps I've already looked at or heard recommended:
- OkCupid
- Match.com
- eHarmony
- Plenty of Fish
- Zoosk