Spent a while looking into this and couldn't find a clear answer, so here I am. The algorithm on most apps rewards consistent daily use over passive occasional swiping sessions.
Specific and thoughtful opening messages get responses at a far higher rate than generic openers. Senior-focused platforms attract people who are clearer about what they want, which speeds up matching.
Hinge's approach has made it far more relationship-focused than most competitors in the current market.
Apps and platforms I've already heard mentioned:
- HER
- Lesly
- Scissr
- OkCupid