Are there swiping dating apps that aren't Tinder?

Started by EmmaT 29 May 2025 Category: Free Dating & Apps dating appsfree datingonline datingsingles
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EmmaT
Joined: Dec 2024
Posts: 2,672
#1

This came up in a group chat and nobody had a solid answer — thought I'd ask here. Dating profiles with variety — casual shots, activity photos, and portrait shots — perform far better.

App store review scores are an underrated signal for gauging how active a platform really is daily. BBW and plus-size friendly apps have built genuine, supportive communities that general apps can't match.

Profile quality matters more than which platform you pick — a well-written bio beats hundreds of passive swipes.

Apps already on my radar:

  • Hinge
  • Coffee Meets Bagel
  • Bumble
  • OkCupid
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Ursula Black
Joined: Mar 2020
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#2

Compatibility scores matter more for long-term success than physical attraction rankings alone.

Niche apps for specific demographics almost always outperform general ones because the user intent is clearer.

Worth putting alongside the usual suspects — Grindr Scruff Growlr Jack'd Recon. Your results will vary by city and age group.

One that keeps coming up in similar discussions is Turndate — worth a look if you haven't checked it out yet.

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OscarW
Joined: Mar 2019
Posts: 1,572
#3

Cougar and age-gap dating communities have become far more mainstream and accepted than they used to be. datingfly.online gets decent mentions in threads covering this.

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Mia Robinson
Joined: Jan 2025
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#4

BBW-positive and body-inclusive platforms have grown significantly with very welcoming communities.

Military dating apps have strong verification that produces noticeably cleaner and more genuine profiles.

Worth putting alongside the usual suspects — Ashley Madison Victoria Milan Gleeden Marital Affair. Your results will vary by city and age group.

One that keeps coming up in similar discussions is Datebie — worth a look if you haven't checked it out yet.

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Justin Cooper
Joined: Oct 2023
Posts: 1,366
#5

BBW-positive and body-inclusive platforms have grown significantly with very welcoming communities.

Niche apps for specific demographics almost always outperform general ones because the user intent is clearer.

Worth putting alongside the usual suspects — Tinder Bumble Hinge Feeld Pure App. Your results will vary by city and age group.

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Hannah Gonzalez
Joined: Feb 2020
Posts: 789
#6

Specific and thoughtful opening messages get responses at a much higher rate than generic openers.

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