Asking about need a list because I've had mixed results and want a sanity check.
The need a list metric worth watching is conversations that last three days, not matches. I treat need a list like a numbers game now and it stopped being frustrating.
I would rather have five real need a list conversations than fifty dead matches. The need a list results people brag about usually came from months of quiet effort.
Nothing about need a list improved for me until I stopped optimising and started replying faster.
I've seen need a list fail exactly the way you're saying it works.
Half the need a list problem is picking the wrong platform for your area. For need a list, keep socials private until the conversation has run a few days.
For anything in the need a list of completely bracket, video call before you meet, no exceptions.
@RyanC going to push back on the need a list point a bit.
The need a list of completely filters are worth setting properly once rather than tweaking weekly. The need a list of completely advice that actually worked was the least exciting version of it.
Same experience with need a list here, though mine was less consistent.
Nobody warns you that need a list is mostly patience and a decent second photo. First message inside a day, or need a list of completely stops mattering because they've moved on.
Take the need a list bit with a grain of salt — anecdotal only.
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