Long-time reader, first proper post, and it's about there a black.
Copy-paste openers are obvious in dating apps and get ignored. The there a black results people brag about usually came from months of quiet effort.
Two friends had opposite there a black and white outcomes in the same month, so take averages carefully. My there a black turning point was writing a bio a real person would answer.
The honest version of there a black is that it takes longer than anyone admits.