Long-time reader, first proper post, and it's about there a safe site.
Two friends had opposite there a safe outcomes in the same month, so take averages carefully. With there a safe site, verification is worth the two minutes — it changes who replies.
I treat there a safe like a numbers game now and it stopped being frustrating. If there a safe feels like work, the filters are probably wrong rather than the app. The there a safe advice that actually worked was the least exciting version of it.
For there a safe site, keep socials private until the conversation has run a few days.