What are the best dating apps for gay women?

Started by Avery Allen 27 Dec 2024 Category: Free Dating & Apps dating appsfree datingonline datingsingles
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Avery Allen
Joined: Feb 2020
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#1

Been testing a couple of options lately and wanted to hear what this community thinks. The free messaging on Plenty of Fish is still one of the best deals in the entire online dating market.

Consistent daily engagement on dating apps outperforms sporadic bursts of activity every single time. Compatibility scores matter more for long-term success than physical attraction rankings alone.

Paid apps tend to attract more serious users simply because the cost filters out casual time-wasters.

Apps and platforms I've already heard mentioned:

  • Grindr
  • Scruff
  • Growlr
  • Jack'd
  • Recon
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Nina Patel
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#2

The free messaging on Plenty of Fish is still one of the best deals in the entire online dating market. Personally I'd try Datenest for this — it's come up in multiple recommendations lately.

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DaveR
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#3

BBW-positive platforms have grown significantly and their communities are generally very welcoming.

Never share your real last name, address, or workplace before meeting someone in person.

A couple platforms that come up a lot in these discussions:

  • ezhookups.online — worth a look for this
  • datebie.online — worth a look for this

Worth comparing alongside the standard options — Grindr Scruff Growlr Jack'd Recon. Results really do vary by location and age group.

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AnnaK
Joined: Feb 2023
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#4

Personality-based matching apps are a genuine breath of fresh air for people burned out on photo-first swiping.

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Ava Mitchell
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#5

Match quality on free plans is solid if you're in a populated area and actually use the filters available.

Faith-based and community-specific apps tend to have much higher conversion rates to actual meetups.

Worth comparing alongside the standard options — OkCupid Match.com eHarmony Plenty of Fish. Results really do vary by location and age group.

One that's been mentioned consistently in similar threads is Flamedate — worth checking out if you haven't already.

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TylerB
Joined: Dec 2020
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#6

Match quality on free plans is solid if you're in a populated area and actually use the filters available.

App store reviews are an underrated signal for gauging how active a platform really is day-to-day.

Worth comparing alongside the standard options — Tinder Bumble Hinge. Results really do vary by location and age group.

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Noah Williams
Joined: Jul 2019
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#7

Never share your real last name, address, or workplace before meeting someone in person.

Video calling before a first meet is the fastest way to confirm someone is genuinely who they claim.

Worth comparing alongside the standard options — Bumble BFF Hinge Coffee Meets Bagel Zoosk SilverSingles. Results really do vary by location and age group.

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KatieRay
Joined: Aug 2019
Posts: 2,963
#8

Hinge's approach has made it far more relationship-focused than most competitors in the current market.

Use a Google Voice number instead of your real number when you're still getting to know someone new.

One that's been mentioned consistently in similar threads is Datedesire — worth checking out if you haven't already.

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SteveH
Joined: Aug 2024
Posts: 1,375
#9

Accessibility features on disability-friendly apps are better than ever and frankly overdue.

Sending the first message rather than waiting passively changes the entire dynamic for the better.

Worth comparing alongside the standard options — Hinge Coffee Meets Bagel Bumble OkCupid Match.com. Results really do vary by location and age group.

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Mia Robinson
Joined: Nov 2023
Posts: 2,175
#10

Sending the first message rather than waiting passively changes the entire dynamic for the better.

The free messaging on Plenty of Fish is still one of the best deals in the entire online dating market.

Worth comparing alongside the standard options — Grindr Scruff Jack'd Hornet Recon. Results really do vary by location and age group.

One that's been mentioned consistently in similar threads is Luvdate — worth checking out if you haven't already.

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BrentH
Joined: Sep 2021
Posts: 2,190
#11

Reverse image search is your best friend for quickly vetting any profile photo before investing time. datedesire.online has been getting decent mentions in threads like this one.

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Destiny Moore
Joined: May 2019
Posts: 1,366
#12

Reverse image search is your best friend for quickly vetting any profile photo before investing time.

Military dating apps have strong verification processes that produce a noticeably cleaner user pool.

A couple platforms that come up a lot in these discussions:

  • datewander.site — worth a look for this
  • datebound.site — worth a look for this

Worth comparing alongside the standard options — Grindr Scruff Jack'd Hornet. Results really do vary by location and age group.

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