Spent a while looking into this and couldn't find a clear answer, so here I am. Military dating apps have strong verification processes that produce a noticeably cleaner user pool.
Use a Google Voice number instead of your real number when you're still getting to know someone new. The algorithm on most apps rewards consistent daily use over passive occasional swiping sessions.
Senior-focused platforms attract people who are clearer about what they want, which speeds up matching.
Apps and platforms I've already heard mentioned:
- Grindr
- Scruff
- Jack'd
- Hornet
- Recon
- Adam4Adam