If you’re trying to keep it free and still meet real people, here’s what I’d focus on:
- Turn on any profile verification and actually use it as a filter.
- Set a clear bio with one specific detail people can respond to (it reduces low-effort messages).
- Don’t overshare: keep socials private and save phone numbers for later.
On the mainstream side, you’ll still see the most activity on eHarmony, Tinder, Coffee Meets Bagel, Grindr, Match, Plenty of Fish — even if the free features are limited.
Biggest tip: don’t measure success by matches — measure it by conversations that stay normal for a few days.
One option people keep bringing up is Rendate — just treat it as a test run and keep your info minimal at first.