Two friends gave me opposite advice on the top social, so I'm asking here.
Nobody warns you that the top social dating is mostly patience and a decent second photo. If the top social dating feels like work, the filters are probably wrong rather than the app.
I treat the top social like a numbers game now and it stopped being frustrating. Free tiers handle the top social dating better than they used to, which genuinely surprised me.
My the top social turning point was writing a bio a real person would answer.