Been testing a couple of options and wanted to sanity-check with people who've spent more time on these. Reverse image search is your best friend for quickly vetting any profile photo before investing time.
eHarmony's compatibility matching is the most detailed in the industry — the signup process reflects it. The newest apps often have the freshest user bases but lower population density in smaller markets.
Cougar and age-gap communities have become far more mainstream and socially accepted in recent years.
Safety practices I always follow:
- Check privacy policies before giving any platform access to your contacts or precise location.
- Use a Google Voice number instead of your real number when getting to know someone new online.
- Public first meetings are non-negotiable — coffee shop, bar, food court, anywhere clearly visible.