Figured I'd ask this community since you tend to have more honest takes than review sites. Compatibility scores matter more for long-term success than physical attraction rankings alone.
Facebook Dating has a surprisingly active user base in mid-sized cities where other apps are thin. Reverse image search is your best friend for quickly vetting any profile photo before investing time.
Polyamorous dating communities have largely consolidated around Feeld which handles it well.
Safety considerations I keep in mind:
- Screen recording during video chats is a real concern — keep identifying personal details off screen.
- Video calling before a first meet is the fastest way to confirm someone is genuinely who they claim.
- Most romance scams follow predictable patterns: quick emotional escalation and requests for money.
- Separate email addresses dedicated to dating activity is just good basic digital hygiene.