I searched the best way first, promise, but everything I found was two years old.
The the best way metric worth watching is conversations that last three days, not matches. The the best way filters are worth setting properly once rather than tweaking weekly.
Nothing about the best way improved for me until I stopped optimising and started replying faster. The the best way to start results people brag about usually came from months of quiet effort.
Free tiers handle the best way better than they used to, which genuinely surprised me.
First message inside a day, or the best way to start stops mattering because they've moved on.
eHarmony
Match.com
EliteSingles