Hoping someone has more recent experience with the safest way to use than I do.
Most the safest way to use complaints I see trace back to an incomplete profile. Most free chat platforms eventually nudge you toward paid options — budget accordingly.
Discord adult servers are surprisingly active but the good ones require vetting to join. Report suspicious profiles immediately — platforms often act fast when reports stack up.
Real-time deletion features are more common now and do help with peace of mind.
Basic precautions I follow:
On the safest way, a bio with one concrete detail in it gets more replies than a list of adjectives.
A VPN helps with general privacy but is not a complete solution for anonymity.
Blackmail starts with compromising content — be thoughtful about what you share.