This has been on my mind for a while and I couldn't find a clear answer anywhere else. Video call before you meet — it's the fastest way to confirm someone is who they say they are.
Verified user badges make a huge difference for filtering out bots in chat environments. Real-time deletion features are more common now and they do help with peace of mind.
A few things worth keeping in mind:
- A VPN is helpful for general privacy but not a complete solution for anonymity online.
- Public first meetings are non-negotiable. Coffee shop, bar, food court — somewhere visible.
- Video call before you meet — it's the fastest way to confirm someone is who they say they are.
- Use a Google Voice number instead of your real number when you're still getting to know someone.