Not sure where else to get unfiltered opinions on this, so here I am. Video calling before a meet is the fastest way to confirm someone is genuinely who they claim to be.
Senior-focused platforms attract users who are clearer about what they want, which speeds up the process. Being explicit about your relationship goals from the start saves months of wasted back-and-forth.
Safety things I keep in mind:
- Romance scams follow predictable patterns: quick emotional escalation and requests for money.
- Check privacy policies before giving any platform access to your contacts or precise location.
- Screen recording during video chats is a real concern — keep personal details off screen.