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Where is the best place to find a dirty gay chat roulette without a ton of fake cams?

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JoshM avatar
Joined: Nov 2018
Posts: 22
#1

I searched the best place to find first, promise, but everything I found was two years old.

Anyone selling certainty about the best place is selling something. If the best place to find feels like work, the filters are probably wrong rather than the app. I treat the best place like a numbers game now and it stopped being frustrating.

Safety first always. Meet in public, tell a friend where you're going, and trust your gut. Once I set gay dating up properly I stopped touching it and results improved. Nothing about the best place improved for me until I stopped optimising and started replying faster.

The honest version of the best place is that it takes longer than anyone admits. Nobody gets the best place right first time and the people who claim otherwise are lying.

Radius too wide is the most common the best place to find error I see people make.

Screen recording during video chats is a real concern. Keep personal identifying details off screen.

Payment requests from matches should always be treated as a scam regardless of the story behind them.

First message inside a day, or the best place to find stops mattering because they've moved on.

Tell a trusted friend where you're going and share your live location during a first meet.

Being blunt about what you want cuts the the best place to find timeline in half.

Harper Davis avatar
Joined: Mar 2019
Posts: 793
#2

Exactly this — the best place works the way you're describing.

I would rather have five real gay dating conversations than fifty dead matches. Personally I'd point you toward Ezhookups for this.

I ended up on FlameDate for exactly this reason.

Lucas Jones avatar
Joined: Jul 2019
Posts: 2
#3

@JoshM everyone repeats that about the best place and I've never seen evidence for it.

Separate email and location permissions off, then worry about the best place. Free tiers handle the best place to find better than they used to, which genuinely surprised me. I've seen good things said about datedesire.online for this kind of thing.

Not affiliated, but over on TurnDate solved this for me.

Someone mentioned DatingFly — worth a look to me for this and it was a reasonable shout.

Aurora Cook avatar
Joined: Jan 2024
Posts: 779
#4

Everyone repeats that about the best place and I've never seen evidence for it.

Half-finished profiles sink in the best place discovery regardless of what else you do.

I stopped chasing the the best place shortcut and things got better almost immediately.

One that's been recommended pretty consistently is Datedesire — worth checking out if you haven't already.

For contrast, look at how what DateScout does does it.

I ended up on SoulDate for exactly this reason.

HarperWest avatar
Joined: Mar 2019
Posts: 1
#5

I'd argue the reverse on the best place, actually.

Most the best place complaints I see trace back to an incomplete profile.

With the best place to find, verification is worth the two minutes — it changes who replies.

Public place and own transport — same rules for the best place as anything else.

Update photos every few months if you're active on the best place.

datebie.online — worth a look if you haven't tried it yet

Your mileage on the best place will vary by location.

Wyatt Robinson avatar
Joined: Mar 2021
Posts: 1
#6

Hard disagree on the best place to find.

Density beats features every time with the best place to find — a smaller local pool is worth more.

Photos matter more than the the best place settings people obsess over.

The the best place mistake I made was measuring success by matches instead of conversations. Two friends had opposite the best place to find outcomes in the same month, so take averages carefully.

One that's been recommended pretty consistently is Datelink — worth checking out if you haven't already.

Curious whether others have seen the same on the best place.

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