This came up in a conversation recently and I realized I had no idea what the current answer was. Rural dating apps like Farmers Only have surprisingly loyal user bases that genuinely make matches.
The free messaging on Plenty of Fish is still one of the best deals in the entire online dating market. Free dating apps have genuinely improved but the best features are still locked behind paywalls on most.
Use a Google Voice number instead of your real number when you're still getting to know someone new.